Therapy is a process where
counselors create intervention strategies that are designed to influence a
client’s emotions, behaviors, cognitions, and/or biochemistry. Each of
these four aspects of the human system interacts with one another so that a
change in one area (e.g., emotion) is likely to create change in another
(e.g., behavior). The therapeutic power of humorous interventions rests in its
ability to stimulate changes in all four areas.
There are numerous ways in which a counselor can use
humor in the therapeutic relationship. Humor can be used to build the
therapeutic alliance, to increase client energy, to treat emotional distress and
cognitive distortion, and to diagnose the client’s ongoing progress. In this
article, I will address the use of humorous stimuli as interventions for the
purpose of treatment and diagnosis.
Humor as Treatment
One common usage of humor as a treatment modality
occurs when the counselor creates humorous interventions which target the client’s
emotional distress. For example, one of my clients who was dedicated to
her depression, complained incessantly about wanting to feel less depressed. As
part of her treatment I began offering her "humorous" interventions.
After each of the first few interventions, she responded, "I hate when you
do that (say something humorous)." She became increasingly annoyed with my
humor until finally I inquired, "What is it about my use of humor that
bothers you?" Instantly she replied, "When you make me laugh, I don’t
feel depressed!" Suddenly, in a moment of insight, the light bulb came on!
My humorous interventions were helping to lighten her depression
(treatment) while, unconsciously, she continued to maintain her emotional
distress.
Since humor directly changes our emotional states—humor
and distressing emotions cannot occupy the same psychological space—it can be
used as a treatment modality to alter these states. Clients can be taught to use
humor to relieve anxiety, depression, and anger. The use of humor helps teach
clients that they can not only relieve emotional distress but also
be empowered to manage their emotional reactions.
Humor as Diagnosis
In addition to treatment, humor can be used to diagnose
a client’s psychological state. A client’s ability to perceive humor is
related to his/her interaction of thought and emotion. Perception of humor can
indicate (diagnostically) progress in therapy (treatment).
For example, a former client explained on her first
visit, that "bad things happened" to her because she was
"stupid." On subsequent visits, I used a traditional cognitive therapy
approach, helping her to change that belief system. On the tenth visit,
she reported to me that another "bad thing had happened," but she
could not explain why. I insisted that she knew why and we went back and
forth for a while with her insisting that she did not. I finally looked directly
at her and exclaimed, "It happened because you are stupid!"
After a brief moment of shock, she burst out laughing.
Her ability to perceive the ludicrousness of a "bad event"
being tied to her "being stupid" triggered her laughter.
Diagnostically, I was able to assess her therapeutic progress from the first
session (when she would have agreed with my statement) to the tenth session
(where it seemed ridiculous).
Had she agreed with me that I was correct (and indeed
this event happened because she was "stupid"), I would have diagnosed
that she still had work to do on her faulty belief system, having not yet
integrated corrective thinking targeting her emotional distress.
No matter whether her reaction was to perceive the
ludicrousness or to agree with the absurd beliefs, her reaction to my
humorous stimulus served to diagnose her progress in therapy.
The more we understand the process of using
humor as a therapeutic intervention and the more we observe a client’s
reaction to that process, the better equipped we will be to consciously
present humorous interventions as a strategy for both treatment and diagnosis of
emotional distress.